Dabo is a genuine human being, who can take time from his busy schedule to do things for others. He is the kind of guy that if you had a kid, you would love him to play for. Saban on the other hand, seems like his underwear is always just hiked a little to tight up his behind. He never smiles, you have to wonder if he even enjoys the incredible accomplishments he has achieved with that program.
Your last sentence on The Nictator does not seem to take even a few days to enjoy his Success(National Championships) might be true, but the first part of your post is not true at all. ESPN GameDay did a Feature this past Fall on a Guy with Down's Syndrome(I think that is his illness), who Saban sees at least 1 day per week to talk with him and listen to the Guy's Prediction of the Score for their Next Game.
Also, there seems to be a misconception that Players do not like to play for him, but if that was true, then there would be a high rate of Players transferring out of the Program(for Reasons other than like a Backup QB seeking PT, as happens at most Schools that Over-Recruit 4 & 5 Star Players at that Position).
As opposed to playing for him, I do think that The Nictator is actually more unpleasant to work for if you are an Assistant Coach under him, as he seems like a Cranky Boss, who screams at his employees as was shown on televised games several times how he would do this to Lane Kiffin(spelling?) during Games after a Play gone bad. Seems like it would be crappy to have to go to work for him 7 Days per week, never knowing when he might go off on you as a Coach on his Staff. It baffles me more that he gets Good Coaches to keep joining his Staff, but most leave after a few years, as seems like they get burnt out working for The Nictator.
That being said, I do think a Coach can learn a lot under The Nictator, if he can handle the difficult Work Environment. I am all for a Demanding Head Coach, but you need to have some balance on how to make that Work Environment so Assistant Coaches look forward to coming to work every day-IMO.
Bama Players are probably like, this dude is always on me like I never do anything right, but it could be worse(if any of those Players find out how their Position Coaches are treated at some Staff Meetings), and again they can see on the Sidelines during Games.
Just my take on what I have seen from the Outside and a few News Stories I have read or heard from College Football Sports Reporters on the Bama Program under The Nictator.
Not sure if I would want to play for Dabo, as being Agnostic, would not want to deal with his wearing his Faith on his Sleeves(although not sure how much he pushes it on his Players, and most Southern Players tend to be religious anyways before they decide to matriculate to Clemson or other Colleges in the South or anywhere-well the 'Right' Religion for The Bible Belt). It does seem that Dabo has had more Coaching Stability in recent years, so his Assistant Coaches like working for him(or is it access to Bowling Lanes and Mini Golf Course?), but then again, Clemson can pay their OC & DC more money(or close to the same) than what most Power 5 Schools even pay their Head Coach, so guess it provides those Coaches more time to wait for the Right Coaching Job to open and seek an interview.