I’m with you, Swerv.
I’ve never understood why people take these message boards or social media so seriously?
Why would anyone get so upset with someone for not agreeing with them? That makes no sense.
+ I’ve had people send me really sad/alarming private messages.
+ I’ve had people try to Catfish me.
+ I’ve had people demanding to meet up so that we could fight.
+ I’ve had people try to have me banned.
+ Most often, I’ve had people - with no qualifications whatsoever - try to psychoanalyze me — always in a favorable light of course!
LOL!
Why would you do that? Seriously, what the hell is wrong with you?
It’s the same thing with politics. It’s okay for people to disagree with you. In fact, it’s really, really healthy for all concerned to be exposed to viewpoints that are different from yours. That’s how you grow!
That doesn’t mean you have to agree with them or keep your mouth shut. You can forcefully make your points as well. In fact, that’s what forums like this are for! Recruiting information, information on the team and college football in general and to exchange ideas with other people - typically intelligent people – with a shared passion for Pitt athletics.
However, if you find yourself having a visceral reaction to PantherTooth39 (whose really Jerry the CPA who has a wife and four children and who lives in Mt. Lebanon) or Littsburgh (whose really Grant the unmarried grad student who doesn’t think he wants to go into the field for which he is studying and who has always dreamt about moving to San Francisco) because they think our recruiting sucks and you think it’s better than people give it credit for, then it might be a good idea to walk away from the board for a few days.
Seriously, just take a walk and feed the birds or something. Listen to some music. Go for a swim. Do whatever you need to do to re-calibrate because my guess is that you’re really not mad about that at all.
We are all just offering opinions, not rendering verdicts. If someone disagrees with you, it doesn’t mean it’s because they think you’re stupid or because they are a terrible person or your forever enemy who must be eliminated. In fact, if you met these people in person, they might become some of your best friends. At the very least I’ll bet you’d have a beer with at least half of them.
They all have a shared interest in the same things you do. They just have a slightly different view on Pitt’s running back depth or how to tax the wealthiest Americans or whether or not this shade of blue is nicer looking than that shade of blue.
Is that really so bad? I love debating all of those things. That’s fun! However, I don’t like arguing about it and it never ceases to amaze me how intensely personally so many people take these discussions.
We are all just a bunch of knuckleheads with Internet access, some time on our hands and a keen interest in Pitt football and college athletics in general. It’s all good.