It just depends on what you want out of youth soccer. If your end game is a D1 scholarship for a girl, then you need to send her there, provided she makes the ECNL team in her age group. Or you can send her to Beadling or Century to play on their GA team. If she’s an elite player, pick the best team from those three clubs and send her there. If she’s not good enough to make those teams, then she’s not receiving a college scholarship. In that case she can play for another team at those clubs or another club altogether and pick a team that doesnt travel as much…because all kids can play in college if they want, regardless of their ability. Anyone can play at a D3 school. We’ve had girls come through our HS program that couldn’t see the varsity field for even back up minutes go on and star at places like Waynesburg, Wesminister or Laroche.
for boys, scholarships are even tougher. Case in point. My boy was a good player but no where near elite. I could see the forest through the trees and I knew he wasn’t going to earn a D1 scholarship. His Beadling team was traveling all over the country and getting their butts kicked. They weren’t even the top team in the age group in PAWest. Knowing that wasn’t going to get him noticed and he wasn’t ever going to be a D1 athlete, I took him to a smaller club that didn’t travel as much just so he could keep the ball on his foot and play D2/D3 if he chooses. If your son is elite, get him to the riverhounds or MLS Next. If he’s not, get him to a club that is easy on the travel and checkbook.
bottom line is this- if you want noticed, you have to suck it up, travel and play ECNL, GA, or MLS Next. College scouts only go to those games. Everything else is a ticket to D2 or D3, and/or a place to keep the ball on the foot.