I’ve explained why minivans, which we’ve had two of, no longer work for us in a previous post. One sudden snow squall on our way up skiing was all it took. On top of that, my wife got sick of driving them because at a certain point when your kids aren’t little anymore, their practicality does not outweigh their lameness. Throw in year round school and travel sports, gear, carpooling other kids, and hauling back and forth at least once a month to a vacation home 4 hours away and you can start to see why we’re very happy with the Expedition, even thankful for it at times-like in the winter in northern Michigan.I have two kids and own a Honda Odyssey. It has 96% of the same interior volume as the Expedition but it's only 96% as big. So they're basically equivalent in what they offer.
The Odyssey is also 18% lighter (means it stops more quickly), gets 11-18% better gas mileage and it's 40% cheaper out the door.
There's not really a question in my mind which is safer vehicle or the better value for the money. And for the rare instance when you literally can't live without that extra 4% of room, you can get a roof rack or rent a trailer. You'll probably save yourself $50,000 cost of ownership.