Selfish self-centeredness is at the root of ALL our problems; everywhere in humanity. It’s driven by 100 forms is fear, self-seeking, self pity and self delusion. Decisions made solely on self are doomed to fail in the end. That’s what this 50 year old man has learned so far.
It is a team sport, but I also understand and not naive that people play it for individual gain, as they should. But....I think this is reflective of how children are mostly raised today, no adversity, nothing is their fault. I laugh when I see these programs who stack 5 star recruits (especially at QB) on top of each other....of course what do they think is going to happen.
I have a buddy who is a huge Georgia fan, and he calls Justin Fields a "quitter" and I said "well Georgia didn't need to recruit a 5 star QB in every class" and then I said "of course, as a parent or adviser, don't they look at this stuff, or are they just blown away by the fan aspect of programs and all of the stuff, instead of looking at it like it is a business decision?"
But as much as we want to bemoan the selfishness nature of kids today, we just have to realize and appreciate they have more power now than ever. And that isn't the worst thing. Before scholarship limits, coaches like Bear Bryant and Woody Hayes would recruit top talent, just to make sure their opponents don't get them more so than actually looking to play them, or needing them. And at the end of the day, that is much worse...
Then again, the transfer portal further strengthens the power of the true football powers, because lesser programs can develop or discover a super talent, and by the time the kid is a Sr, an Ohio State or Alabama can reap the rewards and that sucks.