Maybe it is just me. However, it turns my stomach when people just bask in the glory days of their youth. That's just ridiculous, IMHO.
For that reason I hate Hall of Fame induction ceremonies and I hate reunions for championship teams. I just think they seem sad.
One night, I was at a fundraiser and I sat next to Rocky Bleier. Turns out Rock, though a bit of an oddball, was also a very nice and thoughtful man.
He was doing what people do at events like that and basically entertaining everyone out the table. He did a fine job with that task.
Finally, when things calmed down, I politely asked him if it was weird to spend so many years of his life talking about such a brief period of his life what happened so many years ago?
I told him I hope he didn't think my question was rude. I was just trying to figure out how annoying it had to be to play professional football in this town – and to have so much success for it – then have to spend every single day for the rest of your life talking reminiscing with stranger after stranger after stranger who thinks they know you but really has no clue?
He smiled and told me that was one of the better questions he had ever gotten in that type of a setting. He asked to think about it for a second and I think he was measuring his words.
In the end, I think he could tell that I was not trying to be rude. I was genuinely interested in understanding how much of a burden that had to be not only for him but for all of the 70s Steelers.
He then acknowledged that it was part of the deal and that it was at times very frustrating. He said that he loved his time in Pittsburgh and would never want to live anywhere else. However, it could be cumbersome when he went to the mall, or to the grocery store, or to the gas station or when he had dinner at a restaurant.
I just smiled and said I have to imagine that is a two-edged sword and he smiled and said that is exactly right.
Then, he made a really good point. He said something to the effect of, "I already played in those games and suffered those injuries and won those championships. I am very proud of all of it. So, while yes, it can be annoying that for so many strangers to come up to me that is the essence of my existence, I would still rather talk about that time in my life than ignore it."
I told him that was the best answer I've ever heard in that type of a setting. I hadn't thought about it in those terms. He just smiled politely and we carried on for the rest of it was a very pleasant evening.
Great story - thanks.