No, a real fan, if someone like me isn't a REAL FAN, then they're lucky if 5% of the population are REAL FANS. I doubt very much that if you took the entire population of Pitt Alumni, Students, and self proclaimed fans with no connection to the University, you'd be lucky to find 5% that both donate money and attend every home game.
THERE ARE MANY AMONG THEM THAT ARE REAL FANS, that live and die on every down, and root hard for the team, they are REAL FANS, they are just reasonable human beings with lives that WHILE BEING BIG FANS, choose not to make a team of 18-22 year olds the center of their lives, these NORMAL PEOPLE have better, MORE IMPORTANT THINGS to do, while at the same time they do follow the teams closely and watch as many games as possible---- BECAUSE THEY ARE REAL FANS.
PEOPLE LIKE ME ARE REAL FANS.
I'd say people who feel obsessive/compulsive guilt to give money and attend every single game are over the top obsessed. That's fine, they are real fans too. My only problem with those people is when they lecture and berate the NORMAL PEOPLE and try to say we aren't real fans, WE ARE, PERIOD!