I think that your are giving the steelers way more credit then they deeserve. You talk as if they regularly come over and to meet current Pitt players and the players that Pitt is recruiting. From what I know personally and from what I've been told by a couple of friends who work in the South Side complex, the interaction between them is minimal.Practicing and playing where the Steelers play is one of the constant, major recruiting points of the program. And the present stadium is 5 miles away from campus. It is really non-issue except to a small group of people.
Also, we can't even get the steelers coaches kids (who are D-I recruits) to attend the school.
For me, the sooner the Pitt football program gets away from the steelers, the better.