This is an interesting thread. First off, having Ben as a supporter of the team is a good thing and he brings some healthy attention to the program without drawing everyone's eyes away from the team. He's been very good to Pitt volleyball and he's there because his daughters are rabid fans who play the game. I can't address everyone individually so I'll just do this as I can think of things I've seen.
1. Yes, the shorts are tight and short. I regularly wash about eight pairs of them a week because my daughter wears them under dresses and even to sleep in. Oh yeah, she wears them to practice and in games, too. In her mind, they're the most comfortable thing she's ever put on her body and she couldn't imagine playing the game in anything else.
2. Men are noticing the game but not because of the shorts. Those pervs have always been there. I have a good friend who I invited to go see Pitt play Louisville last year. He thought it would be a good chance to sit and chat because he figured it would be boring and we could catch up. He now attends several games a season because, as he puts it, it's way more exciting that any other women's game.
3. Men's volleyball never really took off in the US. There are only about 68 colleges that have teams and its nowhere near as popular. Especially in this corner of the world.
4. The men's and women's games are very different. Men is more speed and power and women play with more finesse. You don't see the power serves like Babcock sends over because most women can't hit the ball hard enough for it to be effective. The difference in net height does make a difference. Now, could a player like Babcock play against men and have success? Maybe, but it would look a lot different against men on a higher net and with a different ball. The men just jump out of the gym and all of them hit rockets. Women, not so much. Put it this way, I wouldn't want my daughter playing against a men's team.
5. The popularity of the women's game has a lot to do with the growth of the sport. If your kid plays, you get interested in the game, right? That's drawing more eyes. And looking at HS numbers is a bit misleading because a lot of girls just don't bother with school ball. There isn't a broad level of talent in school ball so sometimes the better players don't bother with it. That's more true elsewhere in the country where clubs are more cutthroat and practice year round. I really don't have a good way of explaining it other than the fact that college coaches largely don't even want to bother with HS game film.
6. College volleyball is succeeding because it does pretty well on TV and people are spending money as fans. Those dads are tuning in with genuine interest. There are a ton of bugs to work out for it to get better but it is easy to watch. As more fans are attracted to the game, they'll learn the more difficult to understand rules and some of the more intricate details of how the game is played. The announcers do a decent job of explaining when something happens, too. I think TV will find better angles as well.
Hope that helps.